Holy island

Spent two nights at the Open Gate on Holy Island whilst Ian stayed in the caravan. Here are some photos of the island which you can only get to at low tide.

On Saturday there were hundreds of people, when the tide comes in they all have to get off over the causeway otherwise the are stuck there for the night.

Wedding Anniversary

Yesterday was our 10th wedding anniversary.  Its hard to believe that 10 years have gone by so quickly and so much has happened in them.  We did not plan to do anything special but had a lovely day.  In fact probably the best day possible.  Daryl was here putting in our new kitchen and that seems to be going very well - should be finished by Tuesday/Wednesday next week.  The weather was lovely and sunny and Ian and I did some gardening.  We then went to a pub called The Sportsman for lunch in a village called Noughton, not far from here.  Then to B&Q to change a light fitting for the kitchen, then on the Witham for Ian to have his hair cut and then back home.  It was a lovely sunny evening so we sat outside reading our books taking up the rays.  In the evening we had salmon and salad - salmon cooked in the caravan as not kitchen facilities yet and watched a film on tv.  Just an ordinary day - but there was something special about it.  I  think it is because we love our life as it is in Great Totham and yesterday kind of celebrated it.  We are so lucky - God is looking after us.

Beekeeping

Went to see Stuart Baldwin in Wickham Bishops who is a beekeeper.  He talked to us about beekeeping and then showed us the room in the garage where he does the honey extracting.  He advised that the first priority is to go on a beekeeping course as there is a lot to know before you start.  Unfortunately these courses don't start until February next year.  Anyway in the meantime we can gather information in the form of monthly magazines etc.  Also Jean Syme who runs the Maldon and Chelmsford beekeeping groups has suggested that I ask Stuart if I can shadow him.  She will take a bee suit round to his house for me.  I also have a list of the various meetings in the Essex area which we can attend.  I think I am dragging Ian along on this one, but you never know, he might get interested!  We are looking into hives.  Some of them can be built from flat packs - Ian is very good at this sort of thing!

Went into Maldon this afternoon and bought Ian some anti-hayfever tablets as he is suffering quite a bit and sneezing a lot.  Its nice to go into Maldon and walk round the shops - its a nice town.

Back to church

I feel that we haven't been to church for a while but it was only one Sunday whilst we were in Dorset.  Anyway, it was nice to see everyone again.  We had the family praise service today.  This is held in the church hall and is children-orientated with more modern songs played by the band.  At first the congregation were not too sure about this service, preferring the traditional communion service in church.  But today there were a fair number of people (about 40) and  it was a lovely service.  Father Stuart preached - mainly to the children and mainly with 'audience participation'.  It was good and enjoyable.

Ian and I got home and had lunch and then, as the weather was nice and sunny, we decided to go to the Heavy Horses Show at the Museum of Power at Langford - just up the road from us.  It was a typical country affair with lots of dogs, horses, funfair and stalls.  Ian enjoyed the Museum of Power too.  Came home for a lovely cup of tea.

Have been watching Countryfile and the Antiques Roadshow on telly.  Had salmon with mushrooms and garlic, prawns and broccoli for dinner.  What a lovely day!

Coming home from Dorset

Had a nice day yesterday. Went to wimborne and to nt property called Kingston Tracy which once we got there we remembered we had been before when we went to visit the Fitzsimmons in Ringwood. Then into wimborne to the craft centre - everything quite expensive. Walked into the centre of the town - lovely sunny day. Headed to the church but nothing particularly noteable, except that they had a chained library but we could not find it. We eventually ended up at costa sitting outside in the sun. Had to leave at 5 because our parking ticket was about to expire. Such a lovely evening we didn't want to go back to the caravan so drove down to Swanage on the coast. Had a little walk along the front then went to the Swan pub for a meal. Then back to the caravan; watched a film, then to bed.

Today we packed up the awning and caravan and started to make our way home. Stopped at Winchester services for our packed lunch and a cup of coffee. Ian then took over the driving, although he 'virtually' drives whilst I am driving -the only difference is that he doesn't have his foot actually on the pedals!

Picked Anna up from Boking and Jessie, Ella and Danny came out on the street as we were trying to park the car and the caravan. In the end it was easier for Anna to jump in and off we went rather than hold up the traffic. Anna came back to our house for a cup of tea and a bit of administration work, then I took her to the station for the train back to London.

Egg and bacon for dinner and start the washing machine with all the washing to do.

Tuesday in dorset

Got up really late. Woke early but was reading and messing around on the Internet. We have 20 hours of wi fi for 15 pounds through the caravan club. Anyway after doing the washing up from the night before, making packed lunch and getting ready we only left at about 11 o'clock. Went a village called Tolpuddle and to the museum on the Tolpuddle Martyrs. They were six men, ordinary farm labourers, who in 1834 were arrested, tried and deported  to the brutal penal colonies of Australia for protesting about the low wages and grinding poverty they were forced to endure from their harsh employers. Eventually after a period of 4 years they were granted a pardon and were allowed to return to England. It was on their return that the trade union movement was born.There are still trade union festivals celebrated at Tolpuddle today. The six men eventually emigrated from England with their families to Ontario in Canada.
Had a phone call from lindy about us going over to monkhams hall to see William next sunday.  She also asked about charlotte.
We then drove to dorchester.  What a nice town with lovely shops and lots of wonderful buildings. I could probably spend quite a bit of time there. We went to Dorset County museum and had a guided tour by one of the volunteers there. Dorchester is very old with lots of history, there are signs of habitation even in the neolithic age! Lots of famous writers and poets from this part of the world including Thomas Hardy. I bought one of his books - the Woodlands - which can join the pile of books for me to read.

Dorset in the caravan

Oh dear - nothing but rain and more rain. Not too bad yesterday but it's more in the evenings and all through the night. We did some travelling around yesterday in the local area of Wareham. Wareham itself was originally a walled Saxon town on two rivers, the Piddle and the Frome. It's a very nice old town which in its heyday must have been very wealthy. Nevertheless we did our shopping at a small sainsburys there!
We also went to Lulworth Cove and saw the upended geology of the coast and the little bay. This bit of coastline is known as the jurassic. Coast. When I was on my course at the weekend, Ian went to Kimmeridge bay and collection some fossils. The type of rocks here are shales and limestone which is why so much of the jurassic age has been preserved along this coast. Did not manage to get to Durble Door as it was quite a climb up go get to it. Instead we opted for a coffee at one of the little coffee shops. I spoke to a couple who had a cavalier spaniel. What a sweet dog I would love to get one. Some little sparrows came and eat the crumbles from our table.
We then went abbotsbury swan sanctuary but thought it was a bit expensive to go in so did not stay that long.  Charlotte tried to phone but reception in the wilds of Dorset is rubbish. Went to Weymouth,  a Georgia town on the coast favoured by George the third. They are holding the sailing Olympics here and have spent a lot of money making the whole place look really good especially around the bay and harbour. We went over to the Isle of portland to the highest point and looked down at the harbour with all the boats and Chesil beach. We then drove into Weymouth and walked along the beach.
It was then time to go home and have supper. Had chi ken and vegetables. Our tv works only on all the BBC programmes because they don't have digital signal here yet. I went to sleep early.

Diamond jubilee sunday

Feeling cold and wet. Just got back from the church field where Ian and I helped to put up the prayer tent and be there. Wow.... It was cold like winter. Anyway I think the lunches and teas and cakes in the church hall went very well. Church beautifully decorated with flower displays depicting things to do with the Queen such as changing the guard, ascot, union jack etc.
Looking forward to bbq at the mill house tomorrow.  Hopefully not too much rain.

Friday Sunny Day

We are in the house waiting for the courier to call to collect my Blackberry Playbook that is faulty.  It is a bit of pain having to wait - and not knowing when they will come.  But hey-ho, getting a lot of admin work done!

Gardening

Gardening.... but not in our garden!  Went over to Charlotte and Scott's to help plant up some plants from Mimi.  Also did a lot of weeding.  By the time we left it looked quite respectable with tubs and pots planted up, plus a few more plants in the beds.  Had lunch outside in the sunshine.  C & S are off to Madeira early Saturday morning.  Hope they have a lovely time. 

Photos of Charlie

Just been groomed.

On holiday in Isle of Wight

Fast asleep on the sofa!

Day out in Sandwich, Kent

Charlie on holiday in the caravan wanting breakfast.

With Charlotte at Mimi's house.

Walking with Wendy and Gary

Today we have a date at Hanningfield Reservoir which is just south of Chelmsford.  We are meeting Wendy and Gary for a walk followed by something to eat.  Its always nice to meet up with them for a chat and a walk.  It looks like the weather might be good as well - which makes a change.  Anna is coming over today but will be going to Danny and then staying the night with us.  Tomorrow we are going over to Charlotte's house to help with her garden.  She has got plants from Mimi and we have got lots of plants she can have.  I think the garden needs weeding etc first though.  Then Charlotte and Scott are off on their holiday to Madiera on Saturday. I am hopeful that life is returning to normal. 

Life goes on

Have been feeling so sad about Charlie not being here.  I keep thinking something will happen and it will have all been all a mistake and actually Charlie is still alive and will come back to us.  I keep thinking about how ill he was and I hope he did not suffer too much with the sickness.  I think he was OK because he slept a lot.  It is heartbreaking.  I remember how he was before he got old, especially when we were living in Tunbridge Wells.  I would take him for a long walk in the afternoons up to the park.  He was never much of a running dog, and always preferred to do a lot of smelling!  Its always been me and him.  I have been so used to caring for him.  He was always very definite about what he wanted and what he didn't want!   Every time I talk about him or think about him I start crying again.  But yesterday evening I was beginning to feel a bit better and to accept what has happened.  I know logically that what happened was really the best thing for Charlie but its difficult coming to terms with the loss of him.  I will always  remember him.  He has left a huge hole in our lives.  May he be resting in peace - until the next time!  Charlie - you were the best.
And now we still have Jasper to love and care for.  He's a character and actually has a fan club - all the neighbours think he's great and worry about him on the road.  But Jasper is pretty savvy about the road and often sits in the hedge opposite surveying the world.  He is the last man standing, since Bibi died, and now Charlie gone.

Charlie

Came back last night from a weekend away in Farnham with the walking group.  It was very good and we did lots.  Visited NT properties, did a few walks in the lovely Hampshire countryside, stayed in a very nice hotel and we met lots of new people!

 Charlotte  and Scott were looking after Charlie for us.  Charlie is now very old and feeling the effects.  He doesn't want to eat and has not even been able to drink yesterday and today.  We think this might be the end.  Will phone the vet this morning and take him down there.  We are very sad and keep crying because Charlie will leave such a gap in our lives.  He is such a lovely dog with such a great character.  I really don't know how I will cope with going to the vet.
It is nice to be home, even though we had a good time this weekend.  Jasper was here to greet us.  June, our neighbour has been looking after Jasper.  She is such a good neighbour, so very kind.

Busy Days

WEDNESDAY we went for a 5 mile walk with the Ramblers.  We started off at Foresters Park Golf Club in Great Totham and 2 and half hours returned feeling completely knackered!  Well at least I know I can do it.  We then had lunch at the Golf Club which was nice.  Nice to sit down!  My poor legs.

In the evening Standing Committee meeting at the Rectory.  There was only Ian, Graham, Stuart and me.  We think Michael had forgotten or rather was not aware of the meeting.  I think it was a fairly productive meeting for the first one of the year and all new members!

THURSDAY Ian and I went on a coach trip to London with Stan's Coaches, called Hidden London.  We had a very good guide who told us lots about parts of London. 

This photo is around St Batholomew's Hospital.  Actually the ward where Mark was was to the right of the photo.  This is by the entrance to the church.  Our guide told us of all the films where St Batholomew's Church has featured, one famous one being "Four Weddings and a Funeral". 

We then went on a boat on the canal which went past lots of very nice houses and then past London Zoo.  We stopped at Camden Market.  Ian and I had something hot to eat from one of the little food stalls because I was feeling a bit cold.  Then met by the coach and back home again.  We were in rush hour traffic and it seemed to be taking ages to get out of London.  I phone Peter next door and asked him if he would pop in a let Charlie out for a wee!  Eventually got home at about 7.30pm.  Felt tired.



 FRIDAY was admin day.  Letter and forms for Anna to claim Payment Protection  Insurance on a couple of her bank accounts.  Also had to do the minutes of the Standing Committee meeting and the agenda for next PCC meeting.  The day just seemed to whizz by!

SATURDAY was a bit brighter so Ian and I went out in the garden during the morning.  I planted baby leeks and some more carrot seeds.  Ian tidied up the greenhouse for the grow bags for the tomato plants.  It started to rain a bit so came inside for some lunch.  Then into Chelmer Village to look at tablets (the electronic sort).  Not many 7" screens, mainly 10" which is a bit bigger than I was wanting - not so portable.  Back for Sainsbury delivery at 4pm.

Susie and Laurence were supposed to be coming this weekend but Susie was not feeling well.  We tried to re-arrange but our diaries did not coincide!  Maybe in the summer months.

In the garden again!

Monday was a beautiful spring-like day, warm and sunny.  Can not believe it after all the rainy and cold weather we have been having.  Ian and I spent the whole day in the garden, potting up, weeding, cutting the lawn, re-planting flowers etc. We are going to widen the border along the lawn as we have such a lot of stuff still to plant and no where to put it!   I think I must have over done something because I now have a sore lower back.  Had a hot bath in the evening which helped a bit.

Must put some photos of the garden on this post!

Mum's birthday bash

Had a great time meeting up with the family at Mother's 83rd birthday party.  We had drinks in her house and then to David next door for a sit down lunch - there must have been about 30 of us with all the family plus some of Mummy's friends.  Just as well it was inside because the weather was awful, it just rained and rained! 

Lindy made the starter of smoked salmon and Susie and Laurence cooked the main course of duck.  I unfortunately drank too much and became totally drunk.  Eventually I ended up in Mum's house (don't know how I got there!)  I was then sick which was unpleasant for everyone concerned.  I then lay on the bathroom floor for about 3 hours - out for the count.  What a  way to behave!  But everyone seemed very forgiving about it.  But what an idiot I was.  I shall be very careful with the wine from now on.
Anyway ....... HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOTHER!!

Norfolk

Had a great time in Norfolk in the caravan.  We went to a place called Denver, not far from Downham Market.  This is the second time we have been out in the caravan so still a lot to learn from my perspective.  I drove the car with the caravan which was a first and actually quite easy - no problems at all.  The site we stayed at was small - only for five caravans.

 There were two fishing lakes and the land around was pretty water-logged with all the rain.  We made a bit of a mistake when we first arrived because we drove into a particularly muddy part of the site and promptly got the car stuck.  The man who owned the site came and pulled us out with his four wheel drive, but by then the car was covered in mud from the wheels spinning!  I can now fill the water barrel and connect it.  I can also empty the grey waste and re-connect.  (I left Ian to empty the loo waste. YUK!)

Charlie enjoyed his holiday in the caravan.  Here he is having a little sleep on my legs.

This is a fishing lodge that the owner of the site is building.  We had a look inside and it looks very nice.  Three separate flats all fully furnished to a high standard.

We visited Sandringham House which was really lovely. The guides in the rooms obviously work for the Queen and they were so old fashioned - difficult to explain but it felt like they were from another era.  I think a lot of them lived in the village, born and bred.  Lots about the history of the royal family and about the house.  Very interesting.  Worth a visit.  We also went to Castle Acre Priory (English Heritage) which was good.  We went round listening on the phones about the priory and the monks who used to live there.

Another view of Sandringham from the front.

We also went to Denver Windmill.  They make their own flour.  (Our neighbour, June, who had suggested this might be a place we could go, asked us to buy her some flour because she makes her own bread which I believe is mouth-watering!)  Had a cup of tea at the mill cafe.  Unfortunately the sails came off the mill last summer.  They are trying to raise money to replace the sails but this will cost in the region of £100,000.  June and Paul stayed in the cottages on the site when they went up there.

Below is a good photo of the sails taken from the top of the windmill which are still lying on the ground from when they blew off.

The weekend

The weekend began on Saturday morning.  Ian went up to the church to help with the churchyard Spring clean up.  Derek and Sharon arrived at about 11.30am and not long afterwards Jo with her two children Tommy and Katy arrived.  We had roast chicken for lunch which was rather long and lingering.  At about 4pm we decided to go for a walk.  The weather turned out well and we enjoyed the fields, the church and the sunshine.  Came back and teatime.  We then had a couple of games of Rummikub with Katy and Tommy, although I think the adults enjoyed it more!   Then Jo and the children left at about 6.30pm.  We then had a light supper of ham salad and some leftovers from lunch and watched a bit of telly before turning in.  Had a lie in before breakfast at 9am and Ian opened his presents - some dalhia and gladioli tubulars from Derek and Sharon and a satnav for walkers from me, as well as various cards from different people.  Then off to church.  We then went to the Duke of Wellington at Hatfield Peveral for lunch which was good.  Got back just in time before Charlotte and Scott arrived with birthday presents for Ian.  Said goodbye to Derek and Sharon who now have 3 hour trip home to Yate in Bristol.  It was nice to see them and spend some time together.

Tuesday

Went to Morning Prayer at the church this morning at 9.15am.  Gemma is on holiday this week, so it was only Stuart and myself.  When I got back, Ian and I spent some time over coffee thinking about a new bath for upstairs.  The bathroom is a bit tired and would be better with tiles on the floor rather than carpet.  I fancy a Victoria-style roll top bath and dispense with the shower, so it will literally be just a bathroom.  We are also in the middle of getting our kitchen updated.  The man from Wickes came over yesterday to measure up and was here quite a long time going through everything.  We will need to go in store and sort out the final details.  Can't wait!!  The kitchen is old - the doors keep coming off!
We spent a long time in the garden, dodging the showers, tidying up and gardening.  Ian cut the seats off the old wooden garden bench so I can use the table part as a potting bench - just the ticket!  I can keep the pots and different bags of soil underneath the table.
Ian then cut a branch off the damson tree that was looking a bit dead.  And then whilst he had the chain saw out, cut down the little walnut tree at the side of the property.  It will grow huge and there just isn't the room for it.  Sorry tree but it had to be done!
We then had to bath Charlies which is a bit of an explosive event - Charlie barking etc.  He had poo on his bottom and the only way to deal with it is to bath him.  He is now nice and clean - and sweet smelling!!
Anna coming over tomorrow to do an Arbonne party here in the evening. Hope it goes OK and everyone turns up!

P.S.  Have discovered there are in fact 4 fish still left after the heron had his fill on Sunday.  So hopefully they will breed and we will have more fish.  We have put the net back over the pond.

Heron

This morning saw a mighty big heron at our pond and the bugger has taken all our goldfish.  ALL OF THEM!  If we get anymore we shall have to put the netting over the pond.  The heron was about 3 feet tall.

Good Thursday

Just back from the hospital and today I got the good news that according to the last CT Scan there is no evidence on any recurrence of cancer.  What brilliant news.  Thank you God for rescuing me!   I have a letter to see my oncologist on 10 May so that we can arrange follow-up for me.  I just need to have the two weeks of chemo pills and then its all over.  Hurray!

A Rainbow

A rainbow is a promise from God that he is with us and looking after us.  This afternoon we had a wonderful rainbow after a short shower of rain.  I hope it means that Anna finds somewhere to live and a job.  For myself I hope it means that the news from the CT scan on Thursday will be good.

Easter Day

Ian and I went to the 5.30am Dawn Service on Easter Sunday.  It felt very strange getting up so early and getting in the car in the dark.  It did feel a bit mad to be out and about so early in the day.  Got to the church to find some other mad people assembled!  It was a good service.  We started outside the church with the brazier burning.  The Easter candle is blessed and lit from the brazier.  We then process into the dark church with the candles lit.  This service is to commemorate the woman coming early in the morning to anoint Jesus body.  There had been no time to do it when he died on Friday evening and the following day, Saturday, was the Sabbath where you were forbidden to deal with dead bodies.  So their first opportunity was first thing on Sunday morning.  But when they got there they found that the heavy stone had been rolled away and the tomb was empty.  So where was Jesus?  He was alive and already on the go.  An angel told the women to go and tell the disciples to meet Jesus in Galilee.  We light the candles in the church to signify Jesus being the light of the world because he had overcome the power of death and darkness.
Afterwards we came back and fell asleep as we were due to go the Family Service at 10.30am.  This was a more lively service and many people from the village who don't normally go to church came.  The church was full and everyone dressed up in the best!
We came home and rested.  Well that was the idea but we got involved in looking at kitchens because we are thinking of updating our kitchen.  We spent ages trying to work out where everything will go, measuring  and consulting the categlogues.  In the evening we watched "Waking the Dead" - very intriguing but continues tonight.

Lots has happened

I can see that I will have to consult my diary as quite a lot has happened since I last wrote on my blog and I can never remember what I have done!  Anyway on Wednesday Ian and I went to the cinema and saw "Mirror, Mirror" which is a remake of the fairytale about Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs.  I actually really enjoyed it.  It was quite funny but obviously predictable because you know what the story line is!  Anyway Snow White married the handsome prince and the wicked stepmother (Julia Roberts)... well, we don't know what happened to her but she seems to have become very old and haggard and actually just disappeared.  And Snow White's father miraculously re-appeared because  he had been under the spell of the wicked stepmother.  So all ended happily!!
Then in the evening we went to supper at our neighbour's house - which was very nice.  Drank lots of wine but no hangover the next day which was a bonus!
Anna and Jeremy had been staying with us for a few days but are now back at their flat.
On Friday, Anna and Jackie did an Arbonne presentation for Mimi's friends at the mill.  We had lunch together (sandwiches, crisps and mini pork pies etc and wine) and it all went absolutely splendidly!  They all bought something so Anna did quite well out of that.
In the evening Ian and I went to church to the Maundy Thursday service.  We were part of a number of people (12 actually) to have their feet washed which was to remind us that Jesus washed the feet of his disciples that night, the night before he died.  It was to  show them that they should be servants to each other and love one another.  After the service there was a Vigil in the chapel until midnight.  Ian and I stayed to 10pm.
Today (Good Friday) we went for a walk.  It was lovely and sunny and it was good exercise.  A lady at church gave Ian a book on local walks.  We will try and do them all.
Tomorrow (Saturday) we are meeting with Charlotte and Scott (and possibly Anna and Jeremy) for lunch at a new pub that has opened in Harold Wood.  Look foward to that!
Then Sunday is Easter Day.  Ian and I will be going to the Dawn Service at 5.30am.  The good thing about that, as well as being a good service, is that you get breakfast afterwards!

Hello bloggers

Have not been on my blog for a bit!  Anyway, today I went with some members of our church to a Retreat House at Pleshey in Chelmsford.  It was a very relaxing day including lunch.  Got home at about 4pm. Tomorrow we are off to Senior Screen and the film is Sherlock Holmes.  I think we have seen this but it was quite good so worth a second viewing.  And then tomorrow evening we have a dinner date with our neighbours Sue and Peter.  Should be an enjoyable evening as they are quite good fun.  We are very fortunate with our neighbours - all so friendly and sociable.

London

Had a lovely day in London yesterday.  I met up with Susie and we had lunch at Laurence's restaurant.  I had chicory, pear and Rochfort cheese to start with which was absolutely delicious.  This was followed by rare steak and a salad - again delicious beyond measure!  Susie had salad with herbs to start with followed by bream which she loved.  Its so nice to eat beautifully made food.  We had a white wine from Alsace that was.... yes you're guess it!  Delicious too!!! They said we didn't need to pay but we felt bad about that and left a big tip instead.

The gates of Kensington Palace where the flower tributes were laid when Princess Diana died on 31st August 1997.

Went by bus to Kensington Palace that has just recently opened to the public.  It was very interesting - a very good exhibition about Queen Victoria as well as many other monarchs who have lived there.  I have decided I need to do some reading up on William and Mary and her sister Anne.  Seems like an interesting era but I know so little about it.  Many of the exhibits were very well put together (something a bit different) by a London theatre company.  Susie is going to look into it as a possibility for Katy.

Look at the birds flying from the ceiling!

We met Ian afterwards in the tea room.  He had been for his check up at Guys Hospital.  We then walked across the park to Hyde Park to see Diana's memorial waterfall.

Then we caught the tube from Knightsbridge - Susie catching the No. 9 bus back to Victoria Station and home.  What a lovely day - the sun shone brightly all day.
Not so today.  We are confined to indoors even though we wanted to plant all the seeds that have now arrived.  But its too cold to be out - i can feel pins and needles starting in my body.  Oh well - it might brighten up later.

Senior Screen

Went to Morning Prayer at church then to Chelmsford to Senior Screen.  It was Mission Impossible on today - quite good film but a bit tense in places!  Came home to find a couple of garden deliveries.  Then sat in the garden taking in the rays!  Very relaxing day.

Productive day in the garden

Keep thinking we ought to go out somewhere but everyday with the weather so great we just gravitate back to the garden.  Have achieved quite a lot today.  Ian has dug  out two raised beds ready for vegetables.  I have sown a number of seeds - sweet pea, corn on the cob, tomatoes.  Still need to get carrots sorted out.  Will also need courgettes and beans but still too  early to sew them - sorry, sow them!!  They obviously don't need needle and thread!

Plants ready to go into a shady spot in the garden.

Finished the day soaking up the last of the sun rays, with a glass of wine and some nibbles.  That was nice!
Tomorrow we are off to Senior Screen to watch Mission Impossible.  But I will go to Morning Prayer first up at the church at 9.00am.  Let's hope we have another nice day tomorrow.

Sunny days

This morning we went into Witham.  Ian had to see the doctor about his bladder infection - the third lot in only a few weeks!  He now has another set of antibiotics.  On Friday he has his four-monthly visit to Guys Hospital which is quite fortuitous because hopefully they can sort out the problem with the infections. 
We have moved the caravan in the garden so that it is now pointing towards the house and not diagonally along the fence.  This leaves more room for the raised beds we want to put in in the vegetable area.  Ian spent an entertaining hour or so giggerling the caravan backwards and forwards on the automatic caravan mover.  Reminds me of that film with Wallace and Grommit with the electric trousers!  Did quite a lot of stuff in the garden today.  Only thought about lunch at about 3.00pm! 

View of the back garden from our bedroom window.

Our next door neighbour Sue came  round to invite us to dinner next Wednesday.  How kind - we look forward to it.
Charlotte and Scott came round  yesterday and it was lovely to see them and catch up with their news.  We had tea in the garden until it got a bit a chilly.  They had been shopping in Chelmsford which is only about 20 minutes from us.
Look at our magnolia tree!  Looks fabulous against a blue sky.

Saturday

We are both feeling a bit out of sorts today.  Ian thinks he has another bladder infection which is a bit of a pain.  He will no doubt have to get some more antibiotics on Monday.   Yesterday I felt a bit down - not sure why although I am feeling a bit better today.  Its just a pity that the weather looks so nice and sunny but neither of feeling like going outside.  Tomorrow I am preaching in church. 

Lazy days

Well, we had some good intentions of doing some more gardening with the weather so lovely BUT ....... in the end just did a bit then sat in the garden in the sun reading our books.  What a lovely leisurely day we had. 
This afternoon I made a curry chicken in the slow cooker for tonight.
Last night we went to the Lent Course at church.  It would be good if the group carried on meeting after Lent as we have bonded quite well with quite a different mix of people.
Had a phone call from Barry from our old church in Chatham and we have arranged to meet them at Bluewater for lunch after Easter and catch up with their news.  What lovely friends they are!  Looking forward to it.
Haven't got anything planned for tomorrow.  Maybe we might go out for the day.  I think National Trust and English Heritage properties are opening soon.  Will have to have a look in their handbooks.

Juicy Thursday!

Well everything has been going really well since I had my IV.  I have hardly had any side effects, except my arm is a bit pins and needles from where they put the IV in.  Ian and I have been out in the garden yesterday and today, planting, weeding and mowing the lawn.  This would have been unheard of when the weather was cold but now it is nice and warm I am free to garden - all good exercise.
Anna has been staying with us for the last couple of nights which has been nice to have her here and catch up with her news.  She is now back to London rushing around like a mad thing with all her projects going on at the moment - never a dull moment!

IV Chemo today

My appointment at the hospital was 11.45am.  I was eventually seen at 1.15pm and finally got my chemo plugged in at 2.30pm.  Nothing happens quickly here!  My IV takes three hours to go in, so was finally able to go home at 5.30pm.  Anna came to pick me up and we spent the last hour chatting and doing Sudoko (as you do!)
We have had supper and now taking it easy in front of the telly.  I feel a lot better than last time as I told them that it went in too quickly last time.  The oncologist has reduced the dose with strict instructions for it to be put in over 3 hours.
I asked about the results of my CT Scan.  Unfortunately this takes a week to come through.  I will probably hear the results at my next chemo appointment on 12 April.  This will be my last one too - which is good!

Three in a row!

On Saturday I met up with Anna and Charlotte and went to the Nags Head in Brentwood for a delicious and enjoyable lunch.  On Sunday we celebrated Mothers Day with mother at Monkhams Hall and had Sunday lunch with roast lamb - very yummy.  And today a friend of mine from Chatham came over and we had lunch at Prezzo in Maldon.  I must be a lady who lunches!!
This afternoon we went to Broomfield Hospital for the CT Scan.  I am back to the hospital tomorrow for my intravenous chemo so maybe I can talk to someone there to see if there are any results from the scan.

Friday

The raspberries have arrived so first thing was to go out in the garden to start the digging and planting.  Not so warm as it was yesterday!  Worked in the garden until about 1.30pm then went in for something to eat.  Ian took the lawnmower to be serviced.  I went into Maldon to buy cheese for Sunday - Mothering Sunday at Lindy's.  I also had my hair cut.  Just went into a hairdressers and asked if they could cut my hair.  Its a relief to get that fringe out of my eyes!!  Came home and went to lay on the bed for a bit but ended up making up a file to keep all the information about the garden in.  Now feel very organised.
Looking forward to tomorrow.  Ian is going on the walk with Peter and Sue and I am going to meet my lovely daughters in Brentwood for lunch and a surprise visit to an animal sanctuary.  Hope it doesn't rain too much!

Lovely weather again.

Went for a walk to Beacon Hill this morning.  What a glorious day -  with the May blossom out, the birds singing and the sun shining.  We had a look at some of the buildings and houses that we were going to hear about in the afternoon.  Walked up to the Barn Church to listen to Clive Potter giving a talk on Bygone Great Totham with old photos on slides. We could compare yester-year with what it looks like now.  It was very interesting and was followed by a tea and cakes.  Had our tea with Ruth and George from church.  I told Ruth that I had been asked to be PCC Secretary and I knew she had compiled a manual on how to be a PCC Secretary for which I would be very grateful.  She promised to look it out and bring it to church on Sunday.
Delivery of  raspberry plants, and strawberries.  Will get those planted up tomorrow morning.  Its all go in the garden at the moment.

Chelmsford to become a City!

Chelmsford has been awarded city status as part of the Queen's Diamond Jubilee.

Chelmsford's MP Simon Burns said he was delighted the town would become the first city in Essex.
The leader of the Conservative-run council, Roy Whitehead, said it was a tremendous honour for the town.
"The 'city of Chelmsford' sounds a lot better than the 'town of Chelmsford', so if we're going to get investment we'll be better off as a city," he said.
"It is a tremendous honour for the town and will bring considerable joy to the local community.
"I would like to congratulate everyone at Chelmsford Borough Council and elsewhere who worked so hard and put such a compelling bid together, which has led to this honour for our community."
Chelmsford's Mayor Robert Shepherd said: "This is very welcome news for Chelmsford and everybody who lives and works within the city.
"We are delighted that Chelmsford has been honoured in this most important of years and also that Essex has at last been recognised as the vibrant and successful county that it has become.
"On behalf of everyone in Chelmsford we would like to thank Her Majesty for this great honour in her Diamond Jubilee year."

CHELMSFORD FACTS

• The Norman town of Chelmsford was founded in 1199
• Marconi established the first wireless factory in the town's Hall Street in 1899
• It is the joint home to the V Festival, along with Staffordshire
• In 2011 Chelmsford Cathedral became Grade I listed
• The town has a population of nearly 160,000

Feeling better

Feeling a lot better with my cold.  Nose not running any more and coughing less.  Still can't smell or taste anything much.  Went to the Senior Screen this morning to see "New Year's Eve" which was quite good.  Not many people there but next week might be busier with "My Week with Marilyn".
Potted up a consignment of geraniums - 60 in total which arrived this afternoon!  Think we are going to be overrun with geraniums this year!  Never mind they are great flowers.  Ian has dug out another raised bed in preparation for the veggies!  We are now in 'library-mode' on our laptops!

Gardening

Had a productive afternoon in the garden.  I potted up 36 plug geraniums (bright red) and also planted two packets of leek seeds.  Ian shredded a pile of woody bits which went on the compost.  We then had room to put the two small raised beds which we bought last year.  We think we will put the broad beans there once they are grown.  We then put the third small raised bed at the back of the vegetable garden area where we think we will put the leeks.  Its a bit shady there but we think leeks won't mind it too much.  I weeded the area where the gooseberries are growing and put some manure on them.  They are just beginning to green up.  That area is quite dry in the summer so must remember to mulch and keep watering.
Went to Witham this morning.  Ian had to go to doctors to have INR tested for his Warfarin intake, also put in a new prescription.  Been a bit of a cloudy day today but not too cold... which is good!  I am feeling better with my cold a bit more energy but still can't taste or smell anything!

Wisdom of the Saints

Paul Aurelian was a 6th century Welsh saint, who became one of the seven founder saints in Brittany, France.  Paul was the son of a Welsh chieftain named Perphirius/Porphyrius ("clad in purple"), from Penychen in Glamorgan.  He was the brother of three saintly sisters, Juthwara, Sidwell and Wulvela.  Paul became a pupil of Saint Illtud at Llantwit Major and on Caldey Island, like the Saints Samson of Dol, Gildas and David.
He later visited King Mark of Cornwall and founded the church at Paul, before moving on to Brittany to establish monasteries at Lampaul on the island of Ushant, on the island of Batz (where he later died) and at Ocsimor, now the city of Saint-Pol-de-Léon in Finistère. He was consecrated bishop there under the authority of Childebert, King of the Franks. Paul was a vegetarian.
He was first buried at Saint-Pol-de-Léon but his relics were later transferred to Fleury near Orléans.  His bell is still kept at Saint-Pol however Gilbert Hunter Doble thought he might be the same man as Saint Paulinus of Wales. His feast day is 12 March.

Intravenous chemo

Went to the hospital today.  Spoke to the oncologist and we have decided not to go ahead with the intravenous chemo today as I am suffering with this horrible cold and cough.  The first thing he said was that I look very washed-out, which I was hoping he would say as I really didn't want the IV.  I think it would have totally knocked me out.  He has given me a prescription for antibiotics to help get rid of the cold, cough.  I think I will just go to bed this afternoon and take things easy.  If I stay downstairs I will be distracted by so many things....
So I will have my CT scan next Monday and the deferred intravenous chemo will be next Tuesday.  Hopefully I will feel a lot better by then.  They said it was perfectly OK to defer IV if necessary.  So no problem there.
I am so pleased I didn't have the IV today.  It gives me a week of freedom, once I have got rid of the cold.  Hurray.... things are looking up!

Review of the week

Having not put anything on my blog since Tuesday,  I have decided to do a 'review of the week'.  This is what I can remember of it........
Wednesday we went to Senior Screen at the Odeon Cinema in Chelmsford.  Its quite good because they now do it at Chelmsford which is a lot closer than Colchester - so we are happy about that.  The car parking is also cheaper which Ian is particularly happy about!  We saw "The Help" which is about the relationship between the middle class white Americans in the 1950s and their black maids.  It was quite emotional but quite good.
Anna came over on Thursday and I met up with her in Chelmsford for a chat and catch up.  In the evening we went to the Rectory for the start of our Lent Group course.  It was all about being rooted and what that meant.  Is it about living in the same area for many years?  That definitely does not apply to Ian and me.  Perhaps it is about being rooted in tradition, or for Christians it might mean being rooted in our faith and belief.  Many people said that it was about being in a fellowship and support, especially when you are going through hard times.  I can concur with that!
Friday - woke up feeling like I was getting a bit of a cold and cough.  Hope this does not mean  that I cannot have my IV on Monday??  Anyway, we were invited to our neighbours for coffee which was very pleasant with lots of chat.  In the afternoon I went to Chelmsford and bought some clothes as Wendy had sent me a 20% off coupon for M&S.  Seemed like a good opportunity to buy some clothes.  Then onto Broomfield Hospital to have my blood test ready for Monday morning.
Saturday - and off to Charlotte a nd Scott's to help get their garden in order.  Lots of plants needed cutting back and weeds dug up.  After two car loads of greenery to the tip, it is now beginning to look a bit more respectable!

Colchester

Had a mooch around Colchester today and spent a couple of hours going round Colchester Castle.  Learnt a lot about the Roman occupation and Roman life.  Very interesting exhibition with masses of Roman finds from around the area. Also learnt about Bodica leading the Iceni tribe in revolt against Roman rule and practically destroying the whole of Colchester - but that was a long time ago - 60AD!  It says in the guide book, "Leaving Colchester a smouldering ruin, Boudica led her army to destroy the Roman settlements at London and St Albans before being finally defeated.  Boudica escaped but later committed suicide and was buried in a secret location by her people."  Apparently a film has been made about her.   Had our picnic lunch on a bench in the park.  Weather overcast but no rain.  I am sure I have been to the park before but it must have been a very long time ago.  There's a lot to see and do in Colchester.  Will have to go back again sometime.

Tonight there is a talk about the history of Great Totham at the Friends Meeting House in Maldon - we thought we might go along and find out more.....

Sunday

A quiet day today.  Ian not feeling well again.  We think the bladder infection has returned again.  It may be that he was not on the right antibiotic.  Anyway, we will be phoning the surgery first thing Monday morning to make an appointment.  It seems to be very debilitating.  We went to church and stayed for coffee.  I did the intercessions this morning.
Weather has deteriorated somewhat.  Some snow and the temperature has fallen to 3 degrees!    Oh well, lets hope for something better next week.
Have just discovered that they now do Senior Screen at Chelmsford on a Wednesday.  This will be much better for us as it is  lot nearer than Colchester.  So hopefully Ian might be well enough to go on Wednesday.  Its "The Help" that is showing which I believe comes with very good reviews.
Went to staff meeting at the Rectory to catch up on what's happening at church.  

Time to update the blog

Yesterday we went for a walk along the River Chelmer starting at Paper Mill Lock.  There is a little cafe there so we walked one way for a  while and on our return stopped for a coffee, then walked a bit further along the river the other way.  It was positively delightful with the sun gradually burning off the morning mist, the birds singing and otherwise lovely and quiet, except for a couple of moorhens.  It really pepped me up.
Came home for some lunch and then out in the garden to do some planting.  The border that runs down the left hand side of the garden looks better.  We have made it wider and planted a few more shrubs, although still could do with more.  Ian has been weeding the bit beyond the pond so that we can plant raspberries and the rhubarb we brought from Chatham - still in pots.  It feels like Spring.

Today we are going to see Wendy and Gary and going to have lunch at The Bell in Hordon-on-the-Hill, the village where they live.  We have been threatening this for some time - possibly since we first met them! - so its finally happening.  Should be good.

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

Just went to see the Best Exotic Marigold Hotel.  Not going to say much about it because I know there is a small group of people going to see it TOMORROW night and I don't want to ruin it for them!  So I shall say NOTHING!!

What are we watching tonight?  Prisoner's Wives at 9pm on BBC1.

Community of Aidan and Hilda

Today I am meeting up with Mary Rothero from my church for some lunch.  We are going to talk about the Community of Aidan and Hilda.  I went to a meeting on Saturday at the home of Revd Carol Smith in Chelmsford together with five others who are keen to start an Essex Group.  It was a really good day and we learned a lot about the Community and what they do.  We also worked out some dates for us to meet again and also for us to get speakers and arrange days for others in diocese who might be interested in Celtic spirituality.  Celtic spirituality is less fixed than Anglican religion and an important part of it is creation and nature.  You can belong to any church and still be a member of the Community of Aidan and Hilda.  The Community is based on Holy Island off the coast of Northumberland.  They have a great interest in the ancient Celtic saints who have gone before us - like Columba, Cedd, Samson and Brigid.  Many of them got into their coracles (little dug out boats) and set sail from Ireland to come to England to set up monasteries and spread the word of God.  They also take much of their learning from the Desert Fathers where simplicity and purity of life-style is crucial.

Here are some examples of Celtic knots.

Sunday afternoon

Having a restful afternoon today.  It looks lovely out there but don't really have massive amounts of energy to go walking and do any gardening.  We had a pheasant land in our back garden.  I have seen him before in the mornings strutting around making the chuck chuck sound - click here to hear  it!
http://www.oiseaux.net/oiseaux/galliformes/son/Phasianus.colchicus.mp3.  What a magnificent beast he is!  Here is a photo.

Had a really nice time at church this morning.  Everyone is so friendly and kind.  Its like a little piece of paradise.  That sounds a bit over the top but really I can't believe my luck in finding such a nice church to be in.

Friday blues

Went for a meal last night to the Prince of Wales pub which is only two doors down from us.  They have fresh fish on Thursday to Sunday so that's what I had.  Ian had  braised steak in red wine sauce. 
This morning feeling quite lethargic after all the energy I had yesterday.  Might be dehydrated (?) - need to drink more water? But thinking about it, it might be because I eat the tartar sauce with my fish last night.  It tasted so nice I didn't think it would matter, even though it is not allowed on the SCD diet because of the milk and flour.  Makes me realise that I have to stick to this diet religiously otherwise there are consequences - I just get really tired, no energy.  Its so strange how your body can suddenly change.

Going to Helen Rolloston Trust therapy place for reflexology treatment this afternoon which is free for cancer patients.  This evening there is a quiz night at the church which should be good fun.

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Here is a photo of the Christmas rose that Susie bought me for Christmas 2 years ago - it really has come on very well.  Also a photo of the blueberry plants Ian bought this Christmas which are just beginning to green up and hopefully produce a bumper crop in the summer!

Lovely sunny day!

Feeling a lot better after my ordeal on Monday.  In fact I was OK the next day.  I think it was because they gave me the chemo too quickly.  Hopefully that won't happen again!
Anna stayed the night last night and we went into Chelmsford this morning  We sat outside Pret drinking our drinks and basking in the warm sun.  Can't believe the weather is so warm and sunny after all the cold and wet we have had recently.  She then caught the train back to London from Chelmsford.

Came home and did a bit of gardening, mainly watering tubs and weeding.  There is a raised border with herbs outside our sitting room but seems to be taken over by an onion type plant, so dug them all up.  Looks a bit better now.  Perhaps a bit bare but at least the herbs will come up again in the spring and cover the bed.  Not sure what these onion smelling plants are but they are quite invasive.

Ian is feeling a lot better too.  We went for a walk in the sunshine to get some exercise.  We are  both out on Saturday, so need to build up our energy levels before then.  Ian is going to "Who do you think you are?" day at Olympia (family tree stuff) and me to "Community of Aidan and Hilda" day in Chelmsford.

Intravenous experience

Yesterday went for my intravenous chemo at Broomfield Hospital.  All went well until it was time to go home and then YUK.  Waiting for Ian to bring the car round diarrhoea came out.  Did not have the energy to go to the loo and sort it out.  Got in car feeling like death, sweating and moaning.  Asked Ian to stop the car because I felt sick but nothing happened.  Still feeling absolutely wretched.  Then was sick, learning out of the car.  Then just slumped in the seat with my eyes closed till we got home with diarrhoea trying to come out.  Got home and went straight to the loo, and then straight to bed.  In bed I had a cotton polo-neck top on with fleece waistcoat, leggings and fluffy socks, as well as gloves and a bobble hat.  One duvet with blanket on top and then Ian got me another duvet.  Still felt cold but eventually warmed up.  I think it was the bobble hat, keeps the heat in the body!  Stayed put until this morning.  I think the problem was that they gave me the chemo too quickly.  It should always take 3 hours, but this time it only took 2 and half hours.

Don't  actually feel too bad this morning after all the trial of yesterday.  Just a bit weary so taking things easy.  The terrible thing is that IAN IS NOT WELL.  He has a bladder infection and is going to the doctor's this morning for antibiotics.  So it's the sick trying to help the sick at moment in this house.  Happy days.

Fairly busy day today

The last few days before the intravenous on Monday.  I will then not be able to do much so need to get as much done as possible now.  Went with my neighbour June to visit a lady called Myra in the village who has bone cancer.  She seems a lot better than when we last went.  June asked me to go to do the 'religious pastoral' bit as June doesn't go to church, although Myra does have a faith.  We had a positive morning.
After lunch went to Chelmsford to close my Santander account which I have had for probably about 20 years and it has always had £68 in it.  Seems like a bit of waste of time.  Have been meaning to do this for ages.  Then to Broomfield Hospital for blood test for Monday and then to doctors surgery in Witham to collect Ian's prescription.  Got home and felt really tired, so went and lay on the bed and slept for about an hour.  Did not feel like eating supper so Ian had TWO pork chops!!  Lucky him.

Motorhome, Caravan and Camping Exhibition

Went to Excel Exhibition Centre in Docklands yesterday to have a look at all things caravan and motorhome!  We met Susie there who is thinking about getting a motorhome for travelling around in Europe.  Think we eventually found the right company and the right motorhome in terms of value for money and comfort for her.  Its all very exciting!!  We had a nice time with Susie in between lots of cups of coffee and tea and chats. 
Today we booked a week at a caravan site in Dorset from 7th to 14th June.  I am going on a retreat nearby on the Friday to Sunday at a place called Green Pastures.  The subject is "Warrior Poets" all about different types of prayer.  Ian will stay in the caravan at Wareham and then we will have a few days after my retreat for some sightseeing.  Just managed to book in time because as soon as we had booked it, it then came up as fully booked for that week. Good timing!  Busy week because it is half term.

Happy Valentine's Day!

After a bit of a dodgy start, Ian and I exchanged Valentine cards.  The dodgy start was the Ian forgot where he put my Valentine's card but seemed to be too lazy to get out of bed to find it, instead accused me of putting it somewhere!!  I retreated to the sitting room and we did eventually get everything sorted out!! 
Had breakfast and then off to the church for Morning Prayer. (I usually go up there on a Tuesday morning to join Stuart, the vicar and Gemma for prayers.) 
Then off to Colchester to Senior Screen at the Odeon cinema.  The film was Anonymous about whether William Shakespear was in fact the person who wrote all the plays and sonnets.  They did put quite a convincing case that it was someone else.  Good film.   Then to The Bull in Great Totham for Valentine's Day lunch which was very nice.  No supper required tonight.  Thank goodness the weather is getting warmer.  I am feeling a lot better than last week back to my normal self.  Next Monday is the next intravenous - No. 6.  Which means only 2 more to go after that!!!

Sunday

Went to church and did my sermon.  It actually felt quite good sitting up at the front again in my Readers vestments.  My sermon was well received and I got lots of compliments which was nice. 
Anna and Jeremy came round for Jeremy to finish the painting job on the en-suite.  It looks really good now.  The idea was that they would leave my car here and get the train back to London but being a Sunday the trains weren't really running from Witham.  It would mean going to Shenfield (at least).  In the end we thought we would take them to Harold Wood and go and see Charlotte and Scott.  Phoned them only to be told they were just on their way out to the cinema to see The Woman in Black but would we like to go with them.  In the end Anna, Jeremy and I drove to Lakeside and met C & S at the cinema.  The film wasn't really that good.  C&S took A&J to Harold Wood station.  I went to TGI Friday and had a steak and salad then drove home.  A nice evening, all in all.

Duxford Imperial War Museum

Decided to have a day out today instead of sitting around at home trying to keep warm.  We went to Duxford Imperial War Museum Cambridgeshire - just up the M11.  It was freezing!  When we arrived it was -9 degrees. 

The drive up there was absolutely stunning though.  Miles and miles of white fields and the trees were all white frozen in ice, all this against a light and bright blue sky with sun shining.  Plenty of exhibitions of aeroplanes from all eras.  I like the exhibition about WW2 and the blitz, it was really brought to life that you can start to imagine what it must have been like.  It made me think that our lives now in comparison are very much easier.  I bought a post card of one of the posters which read "Your courage, your cheerfulness, your resolution will bring us victory."  Not a bad thing to aim for.  I shall put it on my fridge.

Had a Skype call from John in Zim to wish me all the best for my first sermon tomorrow.  I am feeling slightly nervous but i am sure it will be OK.  Not sure if Anna and Jeremy are coming over tomorrow or not.  Jeremy still has some finishing off in the en-suite to do.
 

Thursday 9th February 2012

Oh dear!  Up at 7.15am and then Anna and I to Chelmsford as Anna had an appointment there at 9.00am.  Afterwards a wander round the market and then into Chelmsford Library to find out about IT courses.  In the meantime Jeremy had done the finishing touches to our en-suite.  Only problem its being a bugger trying to dry the paint, especially the woodwork paint due to cold damp weather lingering outside.  Still all seems be done and dusted now and what an improvement compared to how it was looking before!  Well done Jeremy.... good job! 
Ian has lit the fire which is burning brightly - just what we need.  He is on his laptop and I am on mine - our default positions!  Still there are plenty of things to look forward to.  Got my first preaching assignment this Sunday.  Hope it goes OK and I don't frighten them all away from church!   That's going to be a bit strange after all this time of doing nothing in church except sitting in the pews.  I really like our new church, its just what I think I have always wanted from a church.  Perhaps its just fitting the bill at this time of our lives, too.

Anniversary of Mark's death - 12 years ago

Met with Anna and Charlotte at Mark's grave today.  Charlotte had managed to get a half day off work.  The grave was covered in snow so could not do any gardening work on it, although there are signs of life with the daffodils bulbs beginning to sprout through the snow.  We then had a lovely lunch afterwards at the Woodman Pub in High Ongar, then down into Ongar town and a bit of trip down memory lane.  Went into a bakery to buy some cakes, only to be greeted by a large picture of Ponders End Mill.  We could not believe it but realised the connection when we realised the shop belonged to Andersons, a bakery that uses G R Wright's flour.  This was a bakery that Mark used to  call on when he was a salesman at the Mill.  The weather was freezing today, let's hope things get warmer soon.  Got home and had a Skype call from Paul and Bella in South Africa.  Lovely to hear all their news and they are baking in the heat at 30 degrees!  Anna and Jeremy are here tonight so they were able to have a chat with them too.

Winter scene from our front door

Sunday 5th February

Still feeling yuk.  When am I going to get better??  Ian went to church this morning after removing snow from car, driveway, back garden.  He had to do a reading in church.  Apparently not many people there.... not surprisingly!  I am glad I didn't have to go.  The cold would have been too much.  Confined to the house again.  Ian off to Tunbridge Wells tomorrow, so guess where I'll be hanging out??

Saturday

Nothing in the diary today, so sitting next to the fire in the sitting room and keeping warm is the 'Order of the Day'.  Ian has just taken Charlie out for a walk, although they probably won't be that long!  Too cold.  Have just had a Skype call from Uncle John in Zimbabwe.  He had received some of the information from Ian about the Rees family tree and he had quite a bit to add, things that he could remember about Auntie Vi.  Apparently she was married twice, and he had the name of her children.  Auntie Viv was Meredydd's daughter.  Took lots of notes down.  He wanted to get onto my blogspot but didn't know how to do it.  We went through it with him but didn't manage to get him on it, and together with his cursor freezing that didn't help.  I have sent an email with a link with instructions - hopefully he will be able to read it at a later stage.

Etta James

I just love this song!